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    • Blends of 2 types
      • ⚥ ♂ Classic Gamine -- The Prep Schooler
      • ⚥ ♀ Classic Ingenue -- The Class President
      • ⚥ ♂ Dramatic Classic -- The Art Critic
      • ♂ ♂ Dramatic Gamine -- The Punk Rocker
      • ♀ ♂ Dramatic Ingenue -- The Childlike Czarina
      • ♂ ♂ Dramatic Natural -- The Amazon Queen
      • ⚥ ♀ Ethereal Classic -- The Delicate Sophisticate
      • ♀ ♂ Ethereal Dramatic -- The Sorceress
      • ♀ ♂ Ethereal Gamine -- The Sprite
      • ♀ ♀ Ethereal Ingenue -- The Fairy
      • ♀ ♂ Ethereal Natural -- The Earth Goddess
      • ♀ ♂ Gamine Ingenue -- The Girlish Mod
      • ⚥ ♂ Natural Classic -- The Prep
      • ♂ ♂ Natural Gamine -- The Tomboy
      • ♀ ♂ Natural Ingenue -- The Outdoorsy Sweetheart
      • ⚥ ♀ Romantic Classic -- The Sexy Sophisticate
      • ♀ ♂ Romantic Dramatic -- The Vamp
      • ♀ ♀ Romantic Ethereal -- Aphrodite
      • ♀ ♂ Romantic Gamine -- The Firecracker
      • ♀ ♀ Romantic Ingenue -- The Demure Seductress
      • ♀ ♂ Romantic Natural -- The Babe Next Door
    • Blends of 3 Types
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Classic-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♂ ♂ Dramatic-Classic-Gamine
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Dramatic-Classic-Ingenue
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Dramatic-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♂ ♂ Dramatic-Natural-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♂ Dramatic-Natural-Gamine
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Dramatic-Natural-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Classic-Gamine
      • ⚥ ♀ ♀ Ethereal-Classic-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Dramatic-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Ethereal-Dramatic-Gamine
      • ♀ ♂ ♂ Ethereal-Dramatic-Natural
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Dramatic-Ingenue
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Natural-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Ethereal-Natural-Gamine
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Natural-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♂ ♂ Natural-Classic-Gamine
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Natural-Classic-Ingenue
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Natural-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Classic-Gamine
      • ⚥ ♀ ♀ Romantic-Classic-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Dramatic-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Romantic-Dramatic-Gamine
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Dramatic-Ingenue
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Romantic-Dramatic-Natural
      • ⚥ ♀ ♀ Romantic-Ethereal-Classic
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Ethereal-Dramatic
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Ethereal-Gamine
      • ♀ ♀ ♀ Romantic-Ethereal-Ingenue
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Ethereal-Natural
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Natural-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Romantic-Natural-Gamine
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Natural-Ingenue
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      • ⚥ ♂ Classic Gamine -- The Prep Schooler
      • ⚥ ♀ Classic Ingenue -- The Class President
      • ⚥ ♂ Dramatic Classic -- The Art Critic
      • ♂ ♂ Dramatic Gamine -- The Punk Rocker
      • ♀ ♂ Dramatic Ingenue -- The Childlike Czarina
      • ♂ ♂ Dramatic Natural -- The Amazon Queen
      • ⚥ ♀ Ethereal Classic -- The Delicate Sophisticate
      • ♀ ♂ Ethereal Dramatic -- The Sorceress
      • ♀ ♂ Ethereal Gamine -- The Sprite
      • ♀ ♀ Ethereal Ingenue -- The Fairy
      • ♀ ♂ Ethereal Natural -- The Earth Goddess
      • ♀ ♂ Gamine Ingenue -- The Girlish Mod
      • ⚥ ♂ Natural Classic -- The Prep
      • ♂ ♂ Natural Gamine -- The Tomboy
      • ♀ ♂ Natural Ingenue -- The Outdoorsy Sweetheart
      • ⚥ ♀ Romantic Classic -- The Sexy Sophisticate
      • ♀ ♂ Romantic Dramatic -- The Vamp
      • ♀ ♀ Romantic Ethereal -- Aphrodite
      • ♀ ♂ Romantic Gamine -- The Firecracker
      • ♀ ♀ Romantic Ingenue -- The Demure Seductress
      • ♀ ♂ Romantic Natural -- The Babe Next Door
    • Blends of 3 Types
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Classic-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♂ ♂ Dramatic-Classic-Gamine
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Dramatic-Classic-Ingenue
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Dramatic-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♂ ♂ Dramatic-Natural-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♂ Dramatic-Natural-Gamine
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Dramatic-Natural-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Classic-Gamine
      • ⚥ ♀ ♀ Ethereal-Classic-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Dramatic-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Ethereal-Dramatic-Gamine
      • ♀ ♂ ♂ Ethereal-Dramatic-Natural
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Dramatic-Ingenue
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Natural-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Ethereal-Natural-Gamine
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Ethereal-Natural-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♂ ♂ Natural-Classic-Gamine
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Natural-Classic-Ingenue
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Natural-Gamine-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Classic-Gamine
      • ⚥ ♀ ♀ Romantic-Classic-Ingenue
      • ⚥ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Dramatic-Classic
      • ♂ ♂ ♀ Romantic-Dramatic-Gamine
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      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Ethereal-Gamine
      • ♀ ♀ ♀ Romantic-Ethereal-Ingenue
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Ethereal-Natural
      • ♀ ♀ ♂ Romantic-Gamine-Ingenue
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Makeup Guides Are Finally Here!

8/23/2021

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For several years, my readers have been asking for makeup guides for each of the 63 style types.   I started doing the research necessary to create these guides in 2017, and I'm finally done!​​
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Your makeup's color palette comes from your color season. But two women with the same color season  won't apply makeup the same way to look their most beautiful.

Have you ever wondered why certain makeup trends -- a matte lip, a cat eye, contoured cheeks -- just don't work for you, even when you know that the colors you're using harmonize with your skin?

The reason is that the lines of your face, which determine your style type, harmonize with certain makeup looks and not others. 

Not everyone looks harmonious with fuller lips.

Not everyone looks harmonious with contoured cheekbones.
Not everyone looks harmonious with a smoky eye.
Not everyone looks harmonious with ​delicate, plucked brows. 

Here are two pics of me in two different makeup looks. In both pics, I'm wearing Soft Autumn colors. But I think you'll agree that I'm lovelier in the pic on the right than the pic on the left. 
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My style type is Ethereal Natural, and the pic on the right shows me in an Ethereal Natural makeup look.
The pic on the left is a look with elements of Classic, Romantic, and Dramatic -- all essences that are unimportant for me. 

On the right, my skin finish is less powdery and matte, my eyebrows are less intense, I'm not wearing foundation, my makeup's overall level of contrast is lower, and my overall impression is less made-up. These are all features of an Ethereal Natural makeup look. 

Now, if I were a Romantic-Dramatic-Classic, chances are I would look gorgeous in a more matte, more made-up, higher-contrast look. Angelina Jolie is a Romantic-Dramatic-Classic, and that kind of makeup look is gorgeous for her:
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It's interesting to note that Jolie and I both have the same Soft Autumn color palette.  Yet because the geometry of her face is Romantic, Dramatic, and Classic, her best makeup look is much more sexy, intense, and traditionally feminine than mine. My best makeup ​look combines Natural's no-makeup aesthetic with Ethereal's lightness and delicacy. 

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The makeup guides are about 30 pages long. Here's what each guide includes:

  • Specific, illustrated instructions for how to express each of your essences in the following aspects of your look:
    • overall contrast level
    • color
    • lines and blending
    • skin finish
    • contour and highlighting
    • eyes
    • brows
    • cheeks
    • lips
  • Ideas for how to combine your essences to create your makeup look
  • Several full-color examples of your style type's makeup look, with annotations explaining how each example expresses your style type.
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  • Guidance for how to determine which of your  facial features corresponds to each essence
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Since I expect a high volume of initial orders, please allow UP TO A WEEK for your makeup guide to be delivered by email. All guides will eventually be instant downloads; at that point, you won't have to wait. :-)
Order your makeup guide here!
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Analyze Yourself with the Style ID Calculator

10/6/2020

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Hi, beautiful people!

Right now my virtual style analyses are booked out several months in advance.

I know how hard it is to wait when you're on the quest to understand your unique beauty, because I've been there. :-)

So I thought I would share some quick instructions for how to use the Style ID Calculator.   

The Style ID Calculator can put you on the road to finding your style type.  It's $14.99 and you can get it here.


I hope this tool helps you discover the true nature of your beauty.  :-)

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What Makes the Truth is Beauty System Unique?

10/4/2020

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 I was recently honored by an invitation to analyze the lovely Audrey Coyne.  Many of you will know and love her from Instagram and YouTube. 

Maybe you've wondered how my system differs from other style systems. Audrey  has a new video revealing how four different style experts analyzed her, and in my opinion its's  a great overview of how four different style analysts arrive at their conclusions. (I'm the last one.)

 
​My "dress for your face" philosophy is unique among style analysts, and in my opinion you can see that in the result I got for Audrey's delicate beauty. 

Check out the video. If you think my results for Audrey are accurate, try my Style ID Calculator!  Or perhaps consider investing in a personal analysis like the one I did for Audrey. ​ (I now include the full suite of style information guides as part of your analysis package!)

I hope you and yours are well right now.  <3 <3 
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Style Types: the GAMINE

1/31/2020

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An adult who seems always to have a youthful or childlike quality, regardless of age, likely has a strong dose of Ingenue or Gamine. 

Boyish Beauty

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Big eyes, a large forehead, a small nose, and a round or square face all help to create an impression of youthfulness. 
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One way to think about the seven style types is to think about the words we use to describe the type of beauty each identity embodies. 

  • Romantic beauty is sexy and womanly. 
  • Ethereal beauty is otherworldly and delicate.
  • Dramatic beauty is striking and intimidating.
  • Natural beauty is friendly, often handsome.
  • Classic beauty is ladylike and elegant.
  • Ingenue beauty is girlish or pretty.
  • Gamine beauty is cute and boyish.
Which isn't to say Gamines aren't incredibly attractive. They are incredibly attractive. Women who have a "yang" or masculine quality to their beauty are no less attractive than their more "yin" counterparts. They only appear unlovely when they're placed in a clothing context that's more stereotypically feminine than they are.
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Michelle Williams. The boyish, short hair is so much better.

​You can see the boyish quality of a Gamine in the following ways:
  • Her most flattering haircut is often a "pixie"  cut or another boyish style. Longer hair makes her look less beautiful, not more beautiful.
  • The Gamine looks appealing, rather than silly, in iconic "boy" items such as a T-shirt, a hoodie, a flat cap, or high-top sneakers.
  • The Gamine looks her best with very little jewelry. 
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Which isn't to say that Gamines need little detail. They look great with a lot of detail in the clothing -- pockets, buttons, cuffs, etc. But the jewelry is best when it's minimal. A lot of jewelry reads as feminine, and feminine context around a Gamine will make her look masculine.
The effect of clothing context on our apparent masculinity or femininity is analogous to the effect of color on our skin.   

The apparent color of your skin changes, for better or worse, depending on what color is next to it. That's because of simultaneous contrast. 

And the apparent qualities of your face and figure, including the apparent masculinity or femininity, change depending on the context that surrounds it.

If almost everything in the frame reads as boyish, then the viewer mainly notices what's not boyish - and so the Gamine's feminine qualities actually stand out more.
The more boyish the context, the more beautiful Gamines look. 

Surround them with traditionally female decoration like long locks, ruffles, and lavish jewelry, and they become less lovely. 
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When she goes the boyish route -- with very short hair and little jewelry -- Winona Ryder actually looks more feminine. Because the context is boyish, what stick out as different are her radiant skin, rounded cheeks and gorgeous eyes.
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With more girly jewelry and hair, Ryder actually looks less lovely.


​Gamines (and Ingenues) are tiny, right?

I haven't talked a lot about height as a prerequisite for Gamine identity. Gamines and Ingenues are characterized mainly by their small stature -- right? 

What I've come to understand is that the Gamine and Ingenue quality of youthfulness is an impression created by the face, and actual height is irrelevant. 
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It doesn't matter that Leonardo DiCaprio is 6 feet tall; he looks better in youthful styles because he has a youthful face.
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A long tie is clearly not as good for Leonardo Dicaprio as a cute little bowtie. That's because his face is cute. His height is irrelevant.

Leonardo DiCaprio is 5'11". (Some sources say 6'.) But that baby face looks better in a bowtie than in a standard necktie. 
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Audrey Hepburn - Gamine despite being 5 foot 7.

​Isn't it surprising to learn that Audrey Hepburn, practically the definition of Gamine, was 5' 7"? She looks little. 

Big eyes, high foreheads, round heads, slender necks, and heads that look large relative to the size of the body are characteristics of children. So these features read as youthful. 

Dress a person with these features in similarly youthful clothes, and it will look right. 

So if you're petite, you might consider Gamine and Ingenue first. For some reason that I don't yet understand, petite people seem often to have Gamine or Ingenue facial features. 

But don't assume Gamine (or Ingenue) based solely on small stature, and don't rule it out just because you're not petite. 

Classic or Gamine?

Both Classics and Gamines need well-tailored clothes. Classics look their best with very little detail, and Gamines look their best without a lot of feminine frill. How do we tell them apart?

For one, Classics literally need every hair in place, while Gamines can pull off a little tousle. 

(Tousle suggests motion in the hair. Details that makes us think of movement -- such as zigzag lines, nautical themes, running shoes --  are generally good on Gamines. That comes from the boyish quality. For better or worse, when think of boys, we traditionally think of bodies in motion.)
Both Classics and Gamines look good in fitted, tailored pieces. But the overall Classic vibe is elegant and ladylike, while the overall Gamine vibe is spunky and playful. A Classic isn't her best in sneakers, rolled-up jeans and a striped sweater. A Gamine isn't great in a sweater set, pearls and high heels.

And Classics are particularly lovely in their palette's neutrals and understated colors, while Gamines are particularly lovely in highly contrasting color combinations from their palette. (Again, it's about an impression of movement. Neutrals feel still; contrasting colors feel energetic.)

​If you're not sure of your style type, try the Style ID Calculator! It's so affordable, you may as well!


A version of this post originally ran in May 2015. 
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How Should I Wear Separates?

10/7/2019

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I didn't even think about separates before I knew my style type. But how you put separates together actually has a big effect on the impression you make. 

Romantics, Ethereals, Classic, and Dramatics are each best in a head-to-toe look. If you think about it, this makes sense, because all four of these types are formal and grown-up in their own way: the Romantic is mature womanly sexiness, the Classic is a "ladylike" adult woman, the Dramatic is a powerful ruler, and the Ethereal is an immortal being. None of these pure types is youthful or casual enough to look her best in an obvious use of separates.
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Creating a head-to-toe look can seem difficult, because pretty much everything in the stores these days is separates. You'll occasionally have opportunities to purchase items as a set, but they can be hard to find. 

Often, the easiest way to create a head-to-toe look is to choose separates that are all the same color. When the color is a shocking hue, or pure white or pure black, this is an especially good look for Dramatics. 

​If you want to avoid the drama of a monochromatic look, you can also create a head-to-toe effect by repeating two main colors in different places. ​
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Two main colors repeated in different places in the outfit creates the impression that the garments were purchased as a set.
Another easy way to do a head-to-toe look is to just wear a dress.  Ethereals, Romantics, and Classics have a lot of great dress options. 
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Two fairly Ethereal separates, thrown together casually.
If you find it very difficult to create a head-to-toe look, the good news is that if even one of your essences is an essence that looks good in separates -- Natural, Ingenue, or Gamine -- you can bring in that essence through your use of separates. I'm an Ethereal Natural, and I tend to do this, because it's easy. I own a lot of very Ethereal separates, and when I throw them together casually, the effect reads as Natural. 

​Speaking of which: the message a Natural sends with her use of separates is, "I own nothing but separates, and I basically just throw them together because that's how confident I am, but the effect is never weird, because I can't be bothered to put in enough effort to make it deliberately weird, because that's how casual I am." 
A Natural use of separates looks unplanned, but not attention-getting. If it were an attention-getting look, that would imply that a Natural cares what anyone thinks, and part of the Natural impression is the sense that she's not dressing for the viewer. 
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A Natural: not dressing for the viewer! She's dressing for comfort, and she's not overthinking it.
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You can tell an Ingenue is wearing separates, but you can also tell she's paired them carefully to look harmonious and pretty.

An Ingenue's use of separates says, "Because of my childlike quality, I own mostly separates, but I am careful to put them together in a way that is harmonious and lovely to the eye, because I want to look pretty and finished." 

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​A Gamine's use of separates says, "I deliberately combine separates no one else would dare to put together, because that's how fun and quirky I am. I want you to notice!"
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Gamine's use of separates says, "You bet I did this on purpose. I want to make you chuckle!"
Like Naturals, Gamines don't aim to carefully coordinate separates. But unlike a Natural, a Gamine looks like she's definitely dressing for the viewer: she wants to make you smile and laugh. So the use of separates looks simultaneously carefully planned and really unusual. 


If you're a blend of two or three types, as most women are, and you manifest Natural, Gamine, or Ingenue through your use of separates, you'll want to lean a bit more heavily on your other essence (or two) to balance the effect. So, for example, A Natural-Classic-Ingenue combining separates in a casual, Natural way would take extra care to bring in Classic and Ingenue in other aspects of her look.



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Style Types: The ROMANTIC

10/1/2019

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Romantic beauty is feminine beauty in its mature, womanly form. 

It may be the easiest type of visual feminine to spot, because it's the kind of feminine beauty hetero men are most interested in -- so it's a beauty we often see portrayed in popular culture.

Other systems call this type Sensuous, Soft, or Alluring. They're beating around the bush.                  

The straight truth is this: Romantic beauty is sexy beauty. 

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I've thought for months about a better way to word this, because I have been afraid of coming across as objectifying Romantic women. 

Of course, it could be argued that Style Type Analysis is inherently objectifying, because it analyzes women based purely on their physical qualities. I don't  believe this is true, though. We're not ranking women, or judging their inherent worth, based on their appearance -- we're analyzing appearance for the purpose of helping all women have tools to feel simultaneously authentic and beautiful, if that's something they want. The point of Style Type Analysis is to empower women in their own authentic beauty.

Yet talking about Romantic women's appearance is difficult for me because, traditionally, all women have been judged by how well we conform to the standard of Romantic beauty. And we're all pretty sick of it, aren't we?

Even the Romantic women, who "win" in that system of judgment, are probably tired of being valued for their sexiness.

Is it possible for us to celebrate Romantic beauty without implying that Romantic women's worth lies in that beauty? 

I believe it is. I hope it is. 

Because there's no way around it: Romantic women embody sex appeal. 
It goes without saying that Romantic women are no more or less sexual than any other women. But visually, they read as pure womanly sexuality.

Romantic women tend to have sensuous mouths, smoldering eyes, narrow jaws, large foreheads, and full hair. A Romantic woman looks mature and powerful, not inappropriate, with boob and butt emphasis and a super-cinched waist. 
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Dark hair reads as Romantic because human hair naturally darkens with sexual maturity. (Just as light hair reads as youthful because prepubescent children tend to have lighter hair than adults.)
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A flush in human skin is an indicator of sexual arousal. So palette-appropriate reds, which echo that flush, look perfect on Romantics.
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Romantics look like themselves with half-closed eyes, a cocked eyebrow, and a knowing smile -- or no smile at all. This "come-hither" face is silly on pretty much everyone else, but on Romantics it's perfect. It looks wise and confident.
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Romantics look great with the impression of cleavage, even if they're small-busted. (While some large-busted women, such as Gamines and Dramatics,  look best with de-emphasized chests.) 

Feminine beauty is defined by the curving line. Perhaps because a curved line is more visually complicated than a straight line, Ethereals and Romantics look great surrounded by a lot of detail. (While Naturals and Dramatics are unattractive in highly detailed contexts.) A Romantic looks gorgeous in ruffles, gathers, ruching, elaborate hair, and ornate jewelry.
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Keira Knightley is known for her lean physique, but because she has a lot of Romantic she's gorgeous with the *impression* of cleavage.

Red roses symbolize romance and sexuality, and a Romantic woman is like a red rose: beautiful, delicate, detailed, and composed entirely of curving lines.
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The ultimate Romantic flower: delicate, curved everywhere, and passionately red.

So you're a Romantic, but you don't want to be defined by your sexy appearance. As a woman, I completely get that. 

But if you dress in a way that doesn't create an impression of softness, curves, and delicacy, the result will be that you look less dignified. 


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​Stiff, structured clothes make your feminine, alluring features look out of place. ​It can actually create the impression that your intent is for people to stare at you. 
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And in shapeless clothes, you'll look insignificant and  unprepared. (A Natural would look confident in the same clothes. )
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Honor your Romantic beauty by creating looks as feminine and sexy as you are. That reads as dignified and self-aware. 
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Blogger Tanesha Awasthi has a lot of Romantic, and she's so beautiful in lush, draped, sexy, Romantic looks.
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If you know what looks good on you, but you don't know your style type, try the Style Identity Calculator.

​A version of this post was published in May 2015.
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What Are Constructed and Unconstructed Clothes?

9/23/2019

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A reader writes, "​Your guides have been incredibly helpful to me. However, there is one part of your guides that confuses me. What exactly does it mean for a piece of clothing to be "constructed" or "unconstructed"?"
Great question!

​Constructed garments have a defined shape that's not simply the shape of the body underneath the garment. You can't easily ball up a constructed garment in your hand; it wants to hold a shape. 
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The way a garment is sewn can give it a defined shape. This is easier with heavy, stiff, or crisp fabrics. ​

Manufacturers also use lining, padding or interfacing to make garments have a defined shape. 
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Interfacing makes sections of garments more stiff.

Dramatics and Gamines are flattered by sharp-cornered squares and rectangles. These aren't the shapes of the human body, so Dramatics and Gamines usually need constructed garments to create those shapes. 


Ingenues are also flattered by some structure in their clothes, though their shapes will be more rounded. 
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Romantics, Ethereals, and Naturals all look their best in unconstructed clothes. For Romantics, this means sexy draping that appears to hug the body. For Ethereals, this looks like floaty, trailing garments that seem about to take flight. For Naturals, this looks like garments that are supremely comfortable and unfussy. 
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Romantic's lack of construction takes the form of draping that follows the shape of the body.
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Ethereal's lack of construction is elongated, floaty, and flowy.
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Natural's lack of construction is slouchy, roomy, and comfy.
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​Classics are lovely with a few sharp corners, but they shouldn't overdo it. Classics represent the beauty of balance, moderation, and perfect proportion. This means they are gorgeous in clothes that fit them perfectly, with a lot of tailoring that's precise but not dramatic, and some draping that's feminine without feeling excessive. ​​
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It's not as easy to find constructed clothes as it was 100 years ago. As a society, we've all mostly agreed to dress like Naturals most of the time.  Which is great for us Naturals, but a challenge for everyone else.

Garments that are tailored into defined shapes are usually more expensive than unconstructed garments, because that kind of sewing is labor-intensive. If your style type calls for construction, you may choose to spend the money on those more expensive items. You might also save some money by focusing on clothes that are stiff not because of their tailoring but because they're made from stiffer fabrics.

If you're willing to buy second-hand, you'll find that a lot of vintage clothes are more structured than what you typically see in stores today. 

​Also, consider using spray starch to give your garments more stiffness! You don't hear much about it these days, because fashion is mostly so unconstructed, but clothing starch is still a thing. 
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What You'll Receive with Your Virtual Analysis

7/15/2019

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I've worked hard to develop tools that help women identify their own style types. But some of you may still want more specific, personal help. That's why I also offer virtual style analysis.

What I provide with each virtual style analysis has evolved and expanded in the years since I first started offering personal analysis. Here's an example of the report you'll receive from me when I complete your virtual analysis. 

This particular sample report is 20 pages long; they're generally 15 to 20 pages. 

First, you'll learn which of the 63 style IDs is yours, as well as your exact percentages of each core essence.   The woman in this sample report, for example, is an Ethereal-Classic-Gamine,  with 50% Gamine, 30% Classic, and 20% Ethereal. 
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Then I'll give you a narrative describing how I arrived at your answer. Usually I'll explain which essences were your least flattering, and why, and which style types were runners-up for you. 
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Next you'll see a graph showing your exact essence percentages, along with words I've personally chosen to describe your unique beauty. 

After that, you'll see detailed descriptions of each of your individual essences, and then a handy chart summarizing key style elements from each of your essences.


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At this point, you'll start to see pictures of outfits that I've hand-picked because they are perfect for you, personally.  These pictures continue to appear throughout your report.

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Now I'll talk about your personal style ID in minute detail. 

You'll get exact percentage recommendations for:
 
* your best line lengths
* your best line shapes (straight or curving)
* your best shape sizes
* your best amount of tailoring
* your best amount of detail
* your best use of separates
* the overall maturity of your best look
* your best feminine/masculine balance

You'll also get tips for how to balance any aspect of your look if you lean too strongly in one direction. (For example, how to pull off a high-detail look if your essences are mostly low-detail.) 
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With your personal style analysis, you'll also receive the Visual Style Guide and the What Not to Wear for your style type, as well as a 10% off coupon that works site-wide and never expires.  :-))


​In-person style analysis costs hundreds or even thousands of dollars.  If you've struggled to find your style ID, virtual style analysis may be a good investment for you. 
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Style Types: Your Best Hair

6/24/2019

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 Here are hairstyle ideas for the two-identity blends.

For each blend, the suggestions are jumping-off points. Use them as inspirations.

If you're a blend of three identities, try combining suggestions from the different two-ID blends that apply to you.  For example, if you're a Romantic-Ethereal-Natural, take a look at suggestions for Romantic Ethereal, Romantic Natural, and Ethereal Natural. 

Don't know your style identity? Try the Style ID Calculator!
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Romantic Ethereal: Aphrodite 

Try:
Soft & flowing. 
​Asymmetry.
Fullness and height at the crown.
Long, luscious and full.
​Side parts.
​Low side pull-backs.
Touchable curls or waves.  
​Soft, sexy updos with lots of free curls.


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​Ethereal Dramatic: The Sorceress 

Try:
Flowing but controlled. 
Dramatic in length. 
Intense.
Low, sleek side pull-backs.
Striking winged effects.
Long blunt cuts.
Frozen waves or cascades.
Severe or sleek updos with side parts.


​Ethereal Natural: The Earth Goddess. 


Try:
Flowing & free.
Low, wispy ponytails. 
​Low side pull-backs.
Tousled or braided updos.
Loose, floaty braids.
​Hair that's more narrow than full.
Fishtail braids. 
Tendrils.

Diaphanous & tousled.
​Long, cascading layers.


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​Ethereal Classic: The Delicate Sophisticate

Try:
Flowing but controlled.
Elegantly wing-like.
Face-framing.
Symmetrical waves.
Braided or "period" updos.
​Low, neat side pull-backs.
​Crown braids.
​A narrow hair silhouette.
Neat, elegant braids.
​Neat bobs with some float or wisp.

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​Ethereal Gamine: The Sprite.

Try:
Spunky, diaphanous, floaty, boyish, tousled.
Short and wispy.
Choppy waves.
Cute or witty "period" looks.
​Playful, unexpected braids.


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​Romantic Gamine: The Firecracker.

Try:
Short but touchable.
​Asymmetry.
Playful height at the crown.
Side parts.
Face-framing, with some tousle.
Sexy and spunky.
​Full curls, waves, or playful ringlets. 

​Classic Ingenue: Nancy Drew.

Try:
Simple, neat bangs.
Symmetry, always.
Precise center parts.
​Precise, high side pull-backs.
Neat-as-a-pin pigtails (low or medium-height).  
​Longer simple, sweet bobs.
Controlled curls.  
Barrettes.
​Modest, simple updos and buns.
​Elegant, modest floral accessories.
Headbands.
​Face-framing. 

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Dramatic Ingenue: The Childlike Czarina 

Try:
Simple, sculptural curls.
Modest and controlled, but striking.
Dramatic bangs.
Narrow profile.
​Sleek or striking low pigtails.
Simple, sharp bobs.
Sleek center or side parts.
​Sleek, high side pull-backs.
​Avant-garde accessories.
Striking floral accessories.


​Romantic Ingenue: The Nymphette.

Try:
Sweet, touchable, face-framing, styled, medium-long.
Center parts with full, sexy curls or waves.
​Side parts with simpler, neater curls.
Soft, sexy bangs.  
​Crown bumps.
​Gentle, high side pull-backs.
Sexy pigtails (high or low) ​or pigtail braids.
​Ribbons.
Larger feminine accessories, perhaps with sparkle.

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​Natural Ingenue: The Flirty Farmgirl

Try:
Relaxed, unstructured bangs.  
Messy low pigtails; loose pigtail braids.
Simple ponytails with neat curls.  
​Tendrils.
​Casual high side pull-backs.
Center parts; tousled or mussed.
Layers of sweet curls.
​Simple floral accessories, or simple ribbons.


​Dramatic Classic: The Art Critic

Try:
Avant-garde, but neat.  
Face-framing and striking.  
Controlled.
​Dramatic, stiff updos.
Geometric.
Sculptural bobs and blunt cuts.
​Every hair in place. 

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Gamine Ingenue: The Girlish Mod.

Try:
Spunky bangs.
Short, sweet, tousled.
Playful, short pigtails -- low or high.
High side pull-backs, perhaps with barrettes.
Cute floral accessories
​Center parts.
Curls.
​Witty accessories.



​Classic Gamine: The Prep Schooler. 

Try:
​Boyish, but neatly styled.
Medium-short.
Simple, neat updos with bangs.
Neat, elegant pixies.
​Face-framing, with just a bit of tousle. 

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​Romantic Dramatic: The Femme Fatale

Try:
Dramatic in length or shape.
Touchable, but sleek and intense.
Exaggerated asymmetry.
​Side parts.
Sleek, oversized updos with rounded shapes.
Exaggerated height at the crown.
Sexy and striking.
​Full, sculpted waves or curls.
​Full, wavy blunt cuts.


​Romantic Classic: The Sexy Sophisticate. 

Try:
Soft, face-framing.  
Medium-length.
Sexy but restrained.
Sideswept, curly updos.
Height at the crown.
​Side parts.
Full but neat.
Soft, touchable  bobs with curls or waves.
Controlled.
​Rounded shapes.

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​Natural Classic: The Prep. 

Try:
Simple, neat, medium-length, relaxed, face-framing.
Pulled back simply but not severely, perhaps with a little tousle.
Simple, loose updos.
Subtle layers.
Simple ponytails, low or straight back.
​Simple, low-maintenance bobs with movement.


​Dramatic Gamine: The Punk Rocker

Try:
Playfully  geometric.
Short and striking.
Spunky high ponytails.
Spikes.
Piecey hair.

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​Romantic Natural: ​ The Babe Next Door.

Try:
Medium to long, but with face-framing layers.
Waves or soft curls.
​Asymmetry. Side parts.
Messy crown bumps.
Touchable, uncontained, uncomplicated, free & easy, tousled and full.
​Sexy low ponytails with loose curls.
​Tendrils.


​Natural Gamine: The Tomboy

Try:
Boyish and spunky.
Layers.
Shaggy.
Shorter, messy ponies or pigtails.
Short and tousled.
​Overgrown pixies.

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​Dramatic Natural: The Amazon Queen

Try:
Shaggy, extreme, intense.
Exaggerated layers.
Dramatic ponytails.
​Big and wild.

​Ethereal Ingenue​: The Fairy.

Try:
Diaphanous;  floaty.
Longer hair. Narrow, not wide.
High or low side pull-backs.
Wispy bangs.  
​Long, wispy, low pigtails or pigtail braids.
Medium-length, gently cascading, sweet.
Innocent "period" looks, such as crown braids.
Center parts with curls or waves. 
Mystical floral accessories.
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This post first appeared in January of 2016.
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Ethereal Elements, Explained

6/17/2019

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First published May 2016.

Elements of the Ethereal style identity haven't been clearly and fully articulated before.

Here, I'll identify several of them, and -- more importantly -- explain the logic behind them.

​My hope is that you’ll be able to extrapolate from this this logic to predict other Ethereal elements .

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Braids are Ethereal because they are visually busy and they involve S curves.
Let's start with braids. I love braids.

​Braids are Ethereal because
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1) they are visually busy -- there's a lot of detail --
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2) they involve S curves.
For Ethereality, put that shape -- the S curve -- in your head.

The S curve is crucial to Ethereality.

​That’s because it's a line that's elongated, but that also curves. (Elongation is Ethereal.)
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The S curve is essential to the Ethereal because it's a line that's elongated, but that also curves.

​Braid detail is, of course, also Ethereal then. This includes braided metal in jewelry.
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Braid detail is Ethereal.
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In jewelry, braided metal is Ethereal.
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​Spaced beads -- like those you see on a rosary  -- are Ethereal, again because of the S curves created.
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Spaced beads are Ethereal because of the sinuous line created.
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See the S curves?
A reader in a previous post asked about handkerchief hemlines. They are Ethereal (when they are gradual, not excited) because of the diagonal lines.
Diagonal lines, as long as they're not sharp or geometric appearing, are Ethereal.

This is because, as lines, they're elongated, but they're also in motion, and movement is Ethereal.

​(Diagonality suggests movement; the diagonality is a way of  a line traveling from one point to another.)
Handkerchief hems are also Ethereal because they flutter, and fluttery movement is Ethereal in part because it suggests birds and flight. 

​For that same reason, flutter sleeves are Ethereal, winged shapes are Ethereal, feathers are Ethereal, and birds and winged motifs in prints are Ethereal  -- as long as they're abstracted or stylized, not realistic. If they're realistic, they can be Ethereal plus a more literal style ID, such as Gamine, Ingenue or Classic.
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Abstracted prints of winged creatures are Ethereal.
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Flutter sleeves are Ethereal.
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Feathers are Ethereal.
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Wing and feather motifs are Ethereal.
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Abstracted bird and butterfly motifs are Ethereal.
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Winged-style tops are Ethereal.
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Abstract prints are Ethereal, because Ethereality transcends literal reality.

​Abstract prints and motifs are Ethereal because ethereality is about transcending physical reality and the literal.

Realistic prints and motifs are not Ethereal; they're good for Classics, Gamines, and Ingenues. 

​Shimmer, shine and sparkle are Ethereal, in part because light itself is Ethereal, and in part because a shiny or sparkly finish reads as feminine. 

A shimmery or gently sparkly finish is more Ethereal than a hard shininess because Ethereality is a gentle energy, not an aggressive energy.
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Iridescence, which has a very gentle quality and  suggests the sea, is particularly Ethereal.
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Iridescence and opalescence are Ethereal because they are gentler forms of shimmer and they evoke the sea.
Abstract prints and motifs that suggest the heavens or the cosmos, or that you'd describe as celestial, are Ethereal. Prints that suggest the sea are also Ethereal. (Think of the sea and the heavens as other worlds, and this will make sense.)

If the prints are realistic, they're Ethereal plus another, more literal style ID, such as Gamine.
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Abstract celestial prints are Ethereal...
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...as are abstract prints that suggest the sea.

​Godet skirts are Ethereal because they create sinuous lines and because they evoke mermaids, which are Ethereal. For the same reason, flares are Ethereal. (If they're flared jeans, that's Ethereal Natural.)
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Godet skirts are Ethereal because they create S curves and they evoke mermaids.
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Flares are Ethereal because of the S curve/mermaid tail effect. (Flared denim is Ethereal Natural.)
Hi-lo hemlines are Ethereal because of their fluttery movement, their diagonal lines, and the way their shape suggests a mermaid's tail. 
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Hi-lo hemlines are Ethereal because of the diagonal lines and because they suggest a mermaid's tail.
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Layeres, especially if cascading and translucent, can be Ethereal.

​Layers can be Ethereal, if they create a waterfall or cascading effect, or if some of the layers are translucent.

Translucence is Ethereal, of course.

Speaking of which, waterfall effects, cascading effects and tiers are Ethereal, partly because they create the impression of gently diagonal downward movement, and partly because they evoke waterfalls, which we associate with infinity, beauty, and the ephemeral and intangible.
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Cascading effects are Ethereal because of the gently diagonal movement and the suggestion of a waterfall.
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Waterfalls are Ethereal because they represent infinity, beauty, and the ephemeral and intangible.
Cut-outs and mesh, if they're delicate but not sexy, can be Ethereal, because they're airy and light, because they suggest a world behind the current world, and because the very open weave generally creates S curves.
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Delicate cut-outs can be Ethereal because they're airy and sinuous and they suggest layers of reality.
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A fish-scale effect can be Ethereal if it's not too literal.

​A fish-scale effect, if it's not too literal, can be Ethereal, because of its association with mermaids, because it's extremely detailed, and because it evokes the sea. 

​A very textured finish can also be Ethereal, if it's delicate, because it has the effect of being very visually busy -- i.e., highly detailed. Profusion of detail always reads as feminine, and Ethereality is highly feminine.  ​
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Extreme texture, if delicate, can be Ethereal because it's highly detailed.
Art Nouveau designs, if rather abstract, are often Ethereal, because they consist of narrow, elongated lines, they're very detailed, and the edges are generally rounded.
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Abstract Art Nouveau designs are often Ethereal because of the narrow, elongated lines, profuse detail, and rounded edges.
(I know David Kibbe assigns Art Nouveau jewelry to Soft Natural.

But realize that Kibbe groups all feminine identities -- Romantic, Ethereal, and Ingenue -- into one descriptor: Soft.

As a result, his recs for Soft types are sometimes more accurately assigned to Ethereal types and Ingenue types.

​For example, Art Nouveau jewelry is really better for Ethereal Natural than it is for Romantic Natural. Romantic Natural needs more sexiness in her accessories; Art Nouveau design is generally rather chaste.)

​Long hair is Ethereal because elongation is Ethereal. And of course S curves in long hair are particularly Ethereal.
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S curves in long hair are particularly Ethereal.
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Wispy, floaty hair is Ethereal because it feels insubstantial and suggests a halo.
Wispy and floaty hair is more Ethereal than smooth or slick hair, because it feels more insubstantial, and because it suggests a halo. 
Sandals are Ethereal because their open, airy nature suggests that the foot is only partially connected to the earth.
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Sandals are Ethereal because they suggest a tenuous connection between earth and body.
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Delicate period looks are Ethereal because they suggest agelessness.
"Period" looks, if delicate, are Ethereal because they suggest agelessness, which is Ethereal.

​(Distinguish "retro" and "vintage" from "period"; the first two terms imply decades of age, while the last one implies centuries. Vintage and retro aren't great for Ethereal, but can be good for Ingenue.)

This isn't an exhaustive list of Ethereal elements, but I hope it helps you think more clearly about the Ethereal style identity.  

If you think you might be Ethereal, please check out my tools for identifying your own style identity!
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And if you know you're Ethereal, please check out my 
Visual Style Guides and What Not To Wear guides.
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Style ID Calculator Only $9.99 This Week!

6/10/2019

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Just because!

If you've been thinking about trying the Style ID Calculator, but you've felt unsure whether to go for it, now is the time. 

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Your style calculator is no less than genius!!! And I am not easily impressed. I was kind of  skeptical about it. I'm often told that I look like a completely different person, when I change my hair. So I tried the test with 3 different hairstyles.  I had to choose completely different boards each time. So there I thought - I've confused the system.
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Style Types: The ROMANTIC

4/29/2019

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Romantic beauty is feminine beauty in its mature, womanly form. 
It may be the easiest type of visual feminine to spot, because it's the kind of feminine beauty hetero men are most interested in -- so it's a beauty we often see portrayed in popular culture.

Other systems call this type Sensuous, Soft, or Alluring. They're beating around the bush.                   

The straight truth is this: Romantic beauty is sexy beauty. 
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I initially searched for a better way to word this, because I have been afraid of coming across as objectifying Romantic women. 

Of course, it could be argued that Style Identity Analysis is inherently objectifying, because it analyzes women based purely on their physical qualities. 

I don't  believe this is true, though. We're not ranking women, or judging their inherent worth, based on their appearance; we're analyzing appearance for the purpose of helping all
 women have tools to feel simultaneously authentic and beautiful -- if that's something they want. The point of Style Identity Analysis is to empower women in their own authentic beauty.

Yet talking about Romantic women's appearance is difficult for me because, traditionally, women have been judged by how well we conform to the standard of Romantic beauty. And we're all pretty sick of it, aren't we? 

Even the Romantic women, who "win" in that system of judgment, may be tired of being valued for their feminine beauty.

Is it possible for us to celebrate Romantic beauty without implying that Romantic women's worth lies in that beauty? 

I believe it is. I hope it is. 

Because there's no way around it: Romantic women embody sex appeal. 
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It goes without saying that Romantic women are no more or less sexual than any other women. But visually, they read as pure womanly sexuality.  Romantic women tend to have sensuous mouths, smoldering eyes, narrow jaws, and large foreheads.
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Think about what happens to the female body at puberty. Push those changes to the extremes, and you're picturing a Romantic's best look.  Romantics are flattered by clothes that create the impression of an extreme hourglass figure. They benefit from cinched waists, hip emphasis, cleavage emphasis, and butt emphasis. 
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Let's put aside that this may be the embodiment of the hetero male fantasy. What's important is that it's the Romantic woman's particular form of beauty. For that reason, and no other, we celebrate it. 

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Dark hair tends to read as Romantic because human hair naturally darkens with sexual maturity. (Just as light hair reads as youthful because prepubescent children tend to have lighter hair than adults.)
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​A flush in human skin is an indicator of sexual arousal. Palette-appropriate reds, which echo that flush, look perfect on Romantics.
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​Romantics look like themselves with half-closed eyes, a cocked eyebrow, and a knowing smile -- or no smile at all. This "come-hither" face is silly on pretty much everyone else, but on Romantics it's perfect. It looks wise and confident.
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Feminine beauty is defined by the curving line. Perhaps because a curved line is more visually complicated than a straight line, Ethereals and Romantics look great surrounded by a lot of detail. (While Naturals and Dramatics are unattractive in highly detailed contexts.) A Romantic looks gorgeous in ruffles, gathers, ruching, elaborate hair, and ornate jewelry.
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​Red roses symbolize romance and sexuality, and a Romantic woman's beauty is like a red rose: beautiful, delicate, detailed, and composed of curving lines.
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So you're a Romantic, but you don't want to be defined by your sexy appearance. As a woman, I completely get that. 

But if you instead choose shapeless, roomy clothes, you risk looking dumpy and unprepared. (Though a Natural could pull this off.)
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When you honor your Romantic beauty by choosing feminine, figure-hugging clothes, it reads as dignified and self-aware. 
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But you can also perfect your Romantic beauty with an over-the-top use of jewelry or profuse detail near your face. This is a great choice for Romantic women who don't want to wear figure-hugging clothes.  
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The more jewelry you put on a Romantic, the better she looks. The rest of us start to look silly or mannish very quickly. 

​If you know what looks good on you, but you don't know your style identity, try the Style Identity Calculator.


​A version of this post was published in May of 2015.

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Style Types: The ETHEREAL

4/22/2019

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The Ethereal type embodies a variety of beauty that exists, but that most systems don't allow for: feminine beauty that's neither youthful nor sexual. 

Some systems describe the Ethereal type as the most "yin" -- a synonym often used for "feminine." But I don't think that's accurate.
 

Physically, the Romantic type -- not the Ethereal -- most closely embodies a physical form with exaggeratedly estrogenized features. So Romantic, I think, comes closest to being the most feminine type. Romantic is certainly the most womanly type.

Ethereal beauty, like Ingenue beauty, reads as distinctly feminine but not overtly sexy. Ingenues are girlish and perpetually youthful, while Ethereals are at the other end of the spectrum:  even at a young age, they have an air of great maturity and wisdom. You might use the word "ancient" to describe them, but in the sense that they seem to be old souls. It's easy to imagine that they've traveled here from a far-distant time.
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Physically, Ethereals are defined first by the curving line, as all feminine types are. But their curving line is an elongated S or oval. Their faces tend to be long and gently sculpted. 


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Ingenues: small, neat curving lines.
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Romantics: lush, generous curving lines.
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Ethereals: long, cascading curving lines.
Ethereals look very much like themselves when they're looking into the distance, with a knowing half-smile or an air of distraction. One gets the impression they're actually looking inward, or seeing something others can't see.
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Faded-looking, subtly colored hair and skin read as Ethereal, for a few reasons:

- Subdued colors suggest age, since human coloring naturally fades with age. So muted coloring helps create the ancient or timeless quality that Ethereals have.

- As objects move farther away in our vision, they appear less saturated. So people of low saturation often have the Ethereal quality of seeming to retreat or fade into the distance.

 - Misty coloring on an Ethereal contributes to the impression that she is a misty entity, only partially present on this plane. 
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Look at actors who have played magical beings or figures from myth or legend, and you'll likely see people with Ethereal qualities. Casting directors know how important appearance is in communicating a character's nature.
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Cate Blanchett as an elf.
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Bryce Dallas Howard as a nymph.
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Daryl Hannah as a mermaid.
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Tilda Swinton as an angel.
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Uma Thurman as a goddess.
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Carol Kane as a sort of fairy-ghost.
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Cara Delavingne as a mermaid.
Ethereal beauty is aesthetically appealing but not erotically appealing. It's passionless. For this reason, Ethereal women are often the women that other women find beautiful but that some straight men find weird-looking. If a rude guy has ever looked over your shoulder at a fashion magazine and asked, "Is she supposed to be pretty?" you were probably looking at an Ethereal.
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Amanda Swafford.
Ethereal beauty is often confused with Dramatic beauty, because it's unusual-looking, and rare, and because both types tend to have long faces and frames. 
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Najarra Townsend.
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Riley Montana.
But Dramatic edges seem pointy, while Ethereal edges are gently rounded.  And Dramatic energy is aggressive, even threatening, while Ethereal energy is peaceful. Dramatics look ready to attack; Ethereals look as if they can maintain Buddha-like calm even if they're punched in the nose.  Dramatics feel like they're moving toward you and Ethereals feel like they're drifting away. 
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Jamie Lee Curtis: Pointy. Headed right at ya. Possibly about to kick your butt.
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Frances Conroy: Rounded. Drawing back from you. Very calm.
Ethereals are flattered by light-as-air fabrics, translucency, ornate detail, and anything suggesting flight, such as winged shapes or feathers. Ethereals look like themselves when they look as if they're clothed in clouds, mist, starlight, or moonbeams.
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Corinne Bailey Rae.
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Cate Blanchett.
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Uma Thurman.
And so ends my series on the seven basic style identities. Most people aren't a pure type, but rather a blend of two or three. If you know what looks good on you but don't know how that translates into a style identity, try the Style Identity Calculator!



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Originally published July 2015
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DRAMATIC Style Word Inspiration

4/8/2019

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Dramatic is a style type I am always delighted to encounter in a virtual analysis.
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Women with a lot of Dramatic tend to have strong jaws, strong brows, strong cheekbones, intense, narrow eyes, and an overall powerful energy.

These women can pull off avant-garde clothes that most of us can't; in fact, they require extreme minimalism, sharp corners, and straight lines in their ensembles in order to appear as the gorgeous women they are.  Clothes that are unstructured, very detailed, or noticeably feminine tend to exaggerate the masculine aspects of Dramatic features in an unlovely way.

To wrap my head around style types, I find it helpful to use visual thesauri and word association tools.
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"Striking" is already a word I use when I think about Dramatic types, but "spectacular' is new. I love "spectacular" for Dramatics in its literal sense -- having the quality of a spectacle.  Dramatic clothes beg to be looked at.  (What's ironic is that when a Dramatic wears them, we're more likely to notice her and not her face,  because her face is exactly as spectacular as the clothes are.)
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"Large" and "big" are definitely important for Dramatics. In a Dramatic look, everything gets turned up to 11.
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Dramatic clothes are thrilling on the runway or on the hanger.  And, of course, they are merely correct on a Dramatic woman. (This is an interesting corollary to Classic clothes, which can be boring on a hanger but sensational on a Classic woman. There's a version of this for every style type: On a Natural, sloppy clothes aren't sloppy; on a Gamine, weird clothes aren't weird; etc.)
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"Striking" leads us to "strike," which is fitting, because Dramatic energy feels like it's hitting you. Dramatics and Ethereals can be easily confused, because they both have sculpted, unusual-looking features, but one way to distinguish them is that Dramatic energy "strikes" you with its forward-moving, aggressive energy, whereas Ethereal energy feels like it's floating away. 



Here are some more fun words associated with "dramatic":
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Of course, there are many associated with the theater; Dramatic clothes, by themselves, are performances. I like here also "decisive" (nothing about Dramatics is wishy-washy!) and "sharp."

​Here are some additional adjectives I commonly use for Dramatic looks:
  • avant-garde
  • striking
  • edgy
  • provocative
  • strong
  • intense
  • powerful
  • majestic
  • commanding

You might be a Dramatic blend with a gentle, peaceful nature. Rest assured that your sharp, intense, attention-getting clothes will look at home on you, and you'll stand out less than if you wear the clothes that are all wrong for you.
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The lines on the right are much more extreme than the traditionally feminine lines on the left, but in which picture does model Hailey Baldwin look most like herself? For me, it's the one on the right. I'm not thinking about that edgy red top; I'm just looking at her face.  :-)  Whereas on the left, I keep getting distracted by that ostrich trim and those hair. She doesn't have enough Ethereal to look normal in those delicate feathers, and her beauty is not feminine enough to be really flattered by those waves.  She has a lot of Dramatic, and looks her best in strong, straight lines and little detail.

(I've said before, but should probably mention again, that masculine beauty and feminine beauty are both wonderful, and it's no slight to a woman to notice that her beauty is masculine rather than feminine. Most supermodels have strongly masculine beauty.)




Not sure of your style type? Try the Style Identity Calculator, or consider investing in a Virtual Analysis.
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Am I a "Rectangle"?

3/11/2019

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The vast, vast majority of style advice is about your body. Have you noticed this?

How to make your bust look bigger if you're flat-chested, or smaller if you're busty. How to make your tush look rounder or how to disguise a really big tush. How to make your legs look longer if they're short, or shorter if they're long.  Et cetera.


I have a tiny bust and narrow hips. And fashion gurus have been telling me all my life that this makes me a "rectangle, " and that I should dress in a way that makes me appear to have a narrow waist and a full bust. For example, I'm supposed to wear padded bikini tops with ruffles. This site tells me I need "Dresses that add definition to your bottom and necklines that add meat to the upper body. " This site says "always add belts to your tops and dresses. " This site says "You need to create the illusion of a waist."

When you stop and think about it, you realize that style advice like this is based on two assumptions:

1. Other people are mainly looking at your body, not your face.

2. Every woman looks most beautiful when her body appears as a perfectly proportioned hourglass. 

Neither  of these things is true. 

Number 1 is obviously false. You'd be hard-pressed to correctly identify anyone but your closest family members if you could only see them from the neck down. By contrast, you'll recognize a face you haven't seen in 20 years, even if it's been changed by age.  Our brains are wired to notice and remember faces. When we look at other people, that's mainly what we're looking at.

Number 2 is also demonstrably false. Some  women with ample curves look most lovely when their curves are exaggerated, and some full-figured women look most lovely when their curves are downplayed.  Some women with flat busts and hips look best in clothes that emphasize the flatness, and some look their best in clothes that create a suggestion of curves.



A curvy woman who's more lovely in clothes that de-emphasize her curves: Jamie Lee Curtis:



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A less-curvy woman who looks her best when her curves are played down, not emphasized: Emma Watson.
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A curvy woman who looks much better when her curves are emphasized than when her curves are obscured: Christina Hendricks.
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A woman with a straight silhouette who looks lovelier when the illusion of curves is created: Olivia Wilde.
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In each of these cases, "body type" has nothing to do with what clothes are flattering.  There are women of every body type who look fantastic with a cinched waist and a sweetheart neckline. There are women of every body type who look amazing in rectangular or squarish silhouettes with no waist or bust emphasis. 

What's the controlling factor, then?  The face.


Jamie Lee Curtis has a primarily Dramatic face that's flattered by long, straight lines and minimalism. 

Emma Watson has a primarily Gamine face that's flattered by shorter straight lines and small shapes.

Christina Hendricks and Olivia Wilde both have  faces with a lot of Romantic, so they both look great in clothes that create the impression of a sexy, womanly figure.  (I suspect Wilde has Dramatic and
perhaps Classic as well.)

As an Ethereal Natural, neither of my dominant identities is  flattered by a sexy, full bustline or a cinched waist. What's the point of me appearing to have an hourglass figure if that figure clashes with my face, which is what people are actually looking at?

I look my best in a sort of abstract, feminine minimalism that feels casual. My bust is unemphasized and my waist is uncinched, and it looks great.

"Body type" advice is bogus. 

Despite what you've been led to believe, we are all focusing on your face, not your body. 

To achieve visual harmony, dress for your face.

Not sure of your style type? Try the Style Identity Calculator, or invest in a virtual analysis. 




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It's a Good Time to Be Gamine

2/11/2019

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I spend a LOT of time looking at outfits and answering the question, "What style types are represented here?" 

For the last few years, the answer that comes up the most often is "Gamine."

Gamine style elements are having a moment in fashion. 

Everywhere I look, I see cropped pants, skinny pants, cropped tops, cropped sleeves, higher waistlines, shorts, mini dresses, stripes, boyish hats,  contrast collars and cuffs, pattern mixing, color blocking, and ankle boots. SO. MANY. ANKLE. BOOTS. 



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If you're a Gamine blend, this is great! You have a lot of options in the stores right now.

Classic and Ingenue blends can benefit too. Classics might find tailored Gamine pieces in more neutral (conservative) hues, and Ingenues won't have to hunt for shorter pant legs and sleeves.

It's Ethereals, Dramatics, and Naturals -- the style types defined by elongation -- who will find the fewest options among today's Gamine-influenced clothes.

Now, Naturals never struggle too much -- one can find loose, unstructured clothing almost anywhere these days, and it's been that way for about 40 years. But Ethereal and Dramatic looks are not easy to find in stores right now.

As an Ethereal Natural, I do most of my clothes shopping online. (Have you tried ThredUp? I've used them twice now, and I really like the results. Future blog post.) I also find awesome pieces in thrift stores.

Because of how we've been socialized, we all feel an urge to wear what's being promoted in stores and fashion magazines. But if you don't have Gamine features, Gamine clothes will not fully bring out your beauty.

Knowing your style type makes it easier to resist falling for fashion fads. If you're not sure of your type, try the Style ID Calculator, or consider a virtual analysis from me. :-)
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One Reader's Style Journey

2/4/2019

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With her permission, I'm sharing Danielle M.'s engrossing story: her personal style journey, and her experience with the Style Identity Calculator.  Her story will be especially interesting to those of you with a Style ID Calculator result of more than three essences. I love her idea of "self-storytelling."

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Danielle writes:

Growing up, I struggled a lot with confidence when it came to my clothes (though, I acknowledge that this is not an uncommon backstory). I just couldn't figure out why every outfit I tried on seemed to highlight what I believed were my worst flaws. As a young adult, I resigned myself to a life of never finding a way to dress myself that would allow me to express my most genuine self. My wardrobe evolved into a hodgepodge of fast fashion consisting of whatever the "influencers" were telling us to wear. Most frustratingly, on the rare occasion that I did feel wonderful in my clothes, I couldn't articulate why.


Last May, I stumbled upon Kibbe's system, and for the first time in ages I felt a flicker of hope that I could develop a personal style that would feel true to me. I'm a very intentional person in most areas of my life, and I liked the idea of Kibbe's strict rules for different body types. Kibbe's system would've been fine for me, if I fit neatly -- or even messily! -- into one of his categories. But by the billionth exasperated sigh over being utterly unable to decide between classed as a Theatrical Romantic, a Soft Classic, a Soft Gamine, or a Soft Dramatic by my own eyes and by those of some very, very patient friends and family, I accepted that I do not fit into Kibbe's system.

I purchased your *brilliant* Style ID Calculator with near certainty that it would return an even blend of Ingenue and Ethereal, convinced that because Kibbe dropped those two essences from his system, I just had to be a mix of both of them. Imagine my astonishment when upon arriving at the end of the 63rd board, I saw this: 30% GAMINE, 30% CLASSIC, 30% ROMANTIC. The first time I used the Style ID Calculator, I used a full body image from a few years ago when I was at a different weight. The second time, I used a full body photo of myself taken that very morning. The result: 10% DRAMATIC, 25% GAMINE, 25% CLASSIC, 25% ROMANTIC -- basically the same blend with a smidge of drama. Third time, I decided to actually follow your excellent instructions and use my face only. :) Result: 30% DRAMATIC, 30% CLASSIC, 30% GAMINE. From these results, it became crystal clear to me why I could've taken the Kibbe quiz again and again forever and never would've received an accurate result because he doesn't allow for a situation where someone is primarily a 50/50 fusion of a masculine/feminine "blend" (classic) ~AND~ a masculine/feminine "combination of opposites" (gamine) -- which consistently forms the basis of my particular makeup. Also, the results from your Style ID Calculator perfectly illuminate the reason why I bounced around four out of the five main Kibbe categories and why none of the guidelines for any of them would've supplied complete instructions for me. Thanks to your system, I'm finally deciphering my personal style's enigmatic code.

I've already experimented with different looks, and I've learned that outfits work best for me if I actually attempt to incorporate all four essences. I went back to see how I answered the Romantic-Classic-Gamine and the Dramatic-Classic-Gamine boards on each of my three Style ID Calculator trials, and I was surprised that it was a "3" in all cases for both boards. However, I do notice that something feels super-slightly off unless all four essences are represented in my look. I hypothesize that this is due to the fact that I seem to be comprised of all four in relatively high and equal amounts.

So, I've purchased both the Romantic-Classic-Gamine and the Dramatic-Classic-Gamine Shopping Guides and will probably end up purchasing absolutely everything in your store related to these two blends, haha!

I know that at the end of the day, it is easy for many of us to dismiss personal style as a trivial matter. Indeed, I have done so myself in the past, mostly out of feigned-apathetic declarations that sartorial concerns were just not "for me". But over the course of my journey with body typing and color analysis (...whole other tome...), I've come to view this as a process of self-storytelling, through which a more honest version of self-love blooms. This is no small thing. Instead of feeling like I have to obscure any of my features that I bemoaned when I was younger, I've come to understand how I can celebrate the delightfully paradoxical characteristics that make me... me. Cheesy as all this sounds, I've fallen a little more in love with myself throughout this adventure, and I truly cannot thank you enough for providing a language through which I can tell my tale without speaking a word. Those I cross paths with will now know upon first glance that I'm a "Cheeky Duchess" who moonlights as a "Spunky Art Critic"! :)

Eternally grateful to you for helping me to express my truth and my beauty.

- Danielle 
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How to Bring Your COLOR SEASON  into Your Perfume

1/28/2019

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If you're into perfume, chances are you have checked out my fragrance guides. Each guide describes the best fragrances for your style type. 

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You may have wondered, though, whether you should be even more selective about your fragrance, coordinating it not just with your style type but with your color season.


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Now, I do believe the interaction between color season and style ID is somewhat variable: for example, an Ethereal Gamine who is a Bright Winter might choose to manifest more Gamine (vivid primaries!) in her palette, while an Ethereal Gamine who is a Soft Summer might reflect more Ethereal (sunrise and sunset hues!) in her palette.

But I believe that, in general, your perfume profile is more useful if you keep it consistent with your style type, not your color season. My reasoning for this is as follows: your seasonal palette is already being strongly communicated to the eye of the viewer; color's the first thing we notice, right? So I feel an appropriate role for your fragrance is to reinforce the secondary message of the style type that's being communicated through your lines.

Having said that... If you own your style type's fragrance guide, and you really want to bring your color season into your fragrances, I'll list some specific fragrance notes you may consider looking for.  Perhaps start with a fragrance family recommended for your style type, and search within that family for fragrances containing these notes.

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To bring Bright Spring into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Lemon
  • Black currant 
  • Grapefruit
  • Pineapple
  • Linden blossom 


To bring True/Warm Spring into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Peach
  • Plum
  • Honey


To bring Light Spring into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Tangerine
  • Apricot
  • Cherry
  • Hibiscus




​To bring Light Summer into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Snowdrops
  • Apple blossom
  • Cherry blossom
  • Lotus


To bring True/Cool Summer into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Calone
  • Water hyacinth
  • Water lily



To bring Soft Summer into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Mimosa
  • Ivy
  • Aloe
  • Saltwater



To bring Soft Autumn into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Sandalwood
  • Rosewood
  • Poppy
  • Tobacco blossom



To bring True/Warm Autumn into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Marigold
  • Sage
  • Fenugreek
  • Praline



To bring Dark Autumn into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Pepper
  • Saffron
  • Black tea
  • Tannins
  • Guaiac wood


To bring Dark Winter into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Incense
  • Black elder
  • Chili
  • Cypress



To bring True Winter into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Metallic notes
  • Sour cherry
  • Cassis
  • Mineral
  • Slate​










To bring Bright Winter into a fragrance, try adding:
  • Caraway
  • Ginger
  • Pomegranate
  • Gin


For the essential fragrance notes and fragrance families recommended for your style type, check out your Fragrance Guide. 

To search for fragrances by specific notes, try these sites:

The Perfumed Court
Fragrantica




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If you're not sure of your style type, try the Style ID Calculator, or consider a virtual style analysis. If you're not sure of your color season, try At-Home Draping Cards.
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What does "amount of detail" actually mean?

1/21/2019

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One of the variables that differ from style type to style type is the amount of detail that is most flattering to that type.  

Some of us look beautiful with a ton of detail; some of us look beautiful in a minimalist context; and some of us can pull off both high-detail and low-detail looks. 

But what does "amount of detail" actually mean?

The best way I have come up to explain "amount of detail" is this:  Imagine that your image in the mirror is a pencil sketch. "Amount of detail"  is the number of pencil strokes you'd need in order to accurately render that sketch. 


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A shift dress can be rendered with relatively few lines, while a dress with a sweetheart neckline, a pleated skirt, pleated sleeves, and sequins would require literally hundreds of pencil strokes.

A flat piece of fabric is extremely low-detail. As soon as you gather that fabric into pleats or drapes or ruching, the image becomes much more detailed. Not coincidentally, pleats, draping, and ruching read as feminine. 


Detail always reads as feminine. I have a couple of theories about why this might be. One idea is that we view detail as feminine because detail holds the eye, and throughout history we have seen women, not men, as the sex that exists to be looked at. Another idea is that we associate detail with femaleness because a curving line is "busier" (more detailed) than a straight line, and the lines of female bodies, on average,  curve more than the lines of male bodies. A third idea is that we associated a highly detailed ensemble with femininity because creating a highly detailed ensemble takes time and effort, and women, not men, are traditionally expected to put time and effort into their appearance. 

Regardless of why it's so, a high level of detail adds femininity, and minimalism adds masculinity. Women whose style types are mostly androgynous/masculine will usually find that too much detail makes them look mannish.  Women whose style types are mostly feminine will usually find they are less pretty in minimalist looks. 


I'm an Ethereal Natural with tiny smidges of a few other essences. My feminine-masculine balance is about 60-40 in favor of feminine elements.  If my fabrics are rough and my colors are restrained, I can handle quite a bit of detail, but if my fabrics and colors are already very feminine, I can easily get overwhelmed with detail, and end up looking mannish.   My curly hair by itself adds a ton of detail (imagine making a pencil sketch of it!), so if I'm wearing my hair down I don't have a lot of room to add more detail. Most of my garment choices are pretty simple.



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Those curls add about as much detail as I can tolerate before I start to look mannish. I usually skip earrings, and I wear a *lot* of tank tops.


This sharply tailored suit could be drawn with very few pencil strokes. It's low-detail. 
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Alison Williams is stunning in it because her striking, masculine beauty calls for a very low amount of detail.  (I think Williams is highly Dramatic.) 


​Jennifer Aniston is another celebrity who looks her best in very low-detail looks. She has a ton of Natural (which, along with Dramatic, is a masculine style type that asks for very little detail.)


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See how much better Aniston is in the low-detail dress on the right than she is in the high-detail dress on the left. For a strongly Natural woman (like Aniston and myself), a low-detail context, which is masculine, actually makes her look more feminine. 

Most off-the-rack fast fashion is low in detail. If you're a predominantly feminine style blend, shop for items with more detail built in, like pleats, complicated lapels, visible stitching, and a sheeny finish (which adds visual detail as a result of the play of reflected light.)  If your clothes are simple and you need to add detail, the easiest way to go is to add highly detailed accessories: for example, profusely detailed earrings, necklace, and scarf. 
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Presenting the Infinite Outfit Generator!

1/7/2019

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A few years ago, I had an idea to create a tool that would generate verbal descriptions of outfits for each of the style types. 

Last April, I returned to that idea. I'm ready now to roll out the Infinite Outfit Generator for each of the 63 style types!

This is a great tool for you if you're a "word person" and you'd benefit from a written description of your best clothes. 

Every time you refresh the page, you'll get new ideas for tops, bottoms, and dresses.

Here's a video of me using the Infinite Outfit Generator for Romantic-Dramatic-Gamine. 


In the video, I use an on-screen keyboard to show the keyboard shortcut for repeatedly refreshing the page. But you'll just use your regular keyboard.  :-)

You'll need a desktop or laptop computer and internet access to use this tool. Your purchase gives you access to the generator as a view-only document. You'll receive a link by email. 

Take screenshots of your favorite outfit descriptions! There are hundreds of thousands of possible separates ideas, and (for most types) over a million distinct dress descriptions. 

I'm offering each Infinite Outfit Generator for 11.99, but you can have it for 20% off if you buy it this week!  Use coupon code 
INFINITE20OFF .

Click here to buy your Infinite Outfit Generator. 

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Are you, or is someone you know, an app developer?  I'd love to make the Infinite Outfit Generator into an app!  Please contact me at rachel@truth-is-beauty.com!  I'd really like to give this business to a reader.  :-)




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What's the First Thing You Think?

12/30/2018

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In order to create a particular impression with your appearance, you have to put yourself in the shoes of a viewer, and work backward from what that person sees.

This is easier to do if you notice what your own brain is thinking when you look at an outfit for the first time. 

​An image like the one below contains a ton of information that a viewer processes almost instantaneously, and largely unconsciously.  All of this information will register to the viewer's conscious mind as one, two, or perhaps three main emotions or ideas.


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When I look at this outfit, I ask myself, "What's the first thing I think?" 

What I come up with isn't necessarily a single word; in this case, it's a single feeling or concept -- something like "polished/expensive/pulled-together." 

​That impression tells me that this outfit has a lot of Classic.

(If I challenge myself to identify which details are creating this response in my mind, I come up with these: the structured, expensive-looking bag; the gold jewelry; the neutral color scheme. But  I'm not starting with the details and working outward to the Classic impression; I'm starting with the Classic impression, and only then figuring out which details are creating that impression.)

I then ask myself, Is Classic the only impression I'm getting? What else do I immediately notice?

​Or, put another way: Is this a completely Classic outfit? 
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It's not!  Now that I am looking at this outfit through a Classic lens, the baggy top, the elongation of the necklace, and the size of the bag really stand out. 

Baggy + elongated + oversized = Natural.  So, this outfit has Natural and Classic. 

I'll go back one more time and ask myself, Is this completely a Natural Classic outfit?  

If I look at this outfit through the lens of Natural Classic  -- "The Prep "--  there's one more element that stands out: sexiness. 

​Check out the cleavage, the high heel, the peep toe effect. Those aren't preppy; those are sexy. 
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Sexy is Romantic.

So,  I call this ensemble Romantic-Natural-Classic.. Also known as  "Alluring L.L. Bean," or "Sexy Prep," or "Today's Southern Belle." 

I'll double-check this determination by asking myself, "Is this outfit refined (Classic)? Is this outfit comfortable (Natural)? Is this outfit sexy (Romantic)?"

Yes, yes, yes.

I may take an extra moment to rule out the other four essences by asking myself, "Is this outfit otherworldly (Ethereal)? Is it innocent (Ingenue)? Is it avant-garde (Dramatic)? Is it playful (Gamine)?"

No, no, no, no.

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I find selfies really helpful; for me, and perhaps for many of you, it's very difficult to see a mirror image objectively.  If I'm not sure what impression my ensemble creates, I take a selfie, sit down, open the picture on my phone, and ask myself, "What's the first thing I think when I look at this woman?"

I'm an Ethereal Natural. Here I am in a top I recently bought and returned.  I loved the top when I first saw it, and I wanted it to be right for me, but a little voice in my head told me something was off. I was only able to identify what was wrong after I took a selfie of the top and went through the mental exercise I describe above: "What's the first thing I notice?"

"Loose and comfortable" -- that's Natural. Check.
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"Delicate and kind of Renaissance-y" -- that's Ethereal. Check

Anything else? 

Oh, I see it: There is sweetness, a preciousness, a childlike quality. That is Ingenue.  And Ingenue is what's not working for me. 

​(I do have a tiny bit of Ingenue: enough for a single delicate necklace, as you see here, but not enough for a strongly Ingenue top.)
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Is my room painted in Soft Autumn colors? You bet it is.
If I press myself with the question, "What makes it sweet?", I can articulate that it's the flowers, the wrist emphasis, and the overall babydoll-dress-like impression. But I can say that this top is sweet and girly without being able to say why.


Does an ensemble ever send more than three main messages? Occasionally, but it's very, very rare. The only time I ever encounter this is in some haute couture designs. Some designers are expert at sending multiple messages simultaneously in a single outfit.  I can't remember encountering that effect in an outfit put together by a regular woman. 

So, if you're not sure whether an ensemble is creating the effect you want to create, take a picture of yourself in it and ask yourself,  "What's the first thing I think?"

If you're not sure what your style type is, check out the Style Identity Calculator, or consider a Virtual Analysis.
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Your Last-Minute Gift: A Truth is Beauty Gift Card

12/17/2018

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If you've benefited from personal color analysis or personal style analysis, you know from experience that it's truly a gift that keeps giving.   

Years after my own color and style analyses, I get dressed with confidence literally every single morning.  <3 

​It's hard to put a price on that!

If you need a last-minute holiday gift for your sister or sister-in-law, your mom, your niece, a cousin, a aunt, a best friend, or a co-worker, a Truth is Beauty Gift Card  is a thoughtful and unique gift that may well change a woman's life. 



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For a woman who's color-confused, a $25 or $50 gift card will buy her the Six Season or 12 Season Home Draping Card Set so she can drape herself. 

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For a woman who already knows her color season, a $40 gift card gifts her with her very own season in 40 jumbo-sized sheets. 


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​For a woman who struggles to know her own style, the $15 gift card will let her buy the the 
perennially popular Style Identity Calculator.


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The woman who already knows her own style will enjoy the $20 or $30 gift card, which will give her access to documents for her style type.

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To really treat someone you care about, try the $100 gift card, which buys the Style Identity Calculator and the full suite of documents for one's style type. 
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​Or the $110 gift card, which covers home draping cards, a seasonal color palette, and a seasonal makeup list. 
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Happy holidays, dear ladies.  I'm grateful to be a part of your lives, and to have you in mine.  :-)  <3
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Finding Hair Ideas for Your Style Type: What to Google

12/10/2018

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Most of us go to the internet to get hairstyle ideas. But how can you zero in on the best hair for your style type? Some of us aren't sure how to go about searching. 

You'll want to do a Google image search, of course. Here are some specific search strings I suggest you use to find visual inspiration for your style type's best hair. I use some search operators in my search strings, such as   -   and   OR  , so try pasting the exact search string. 





​Romantic

    hair glamorous long  -wig -extensions
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Other Romantic keywords to try:  curls   full   sexy
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Ethereal

    mermaid waves
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Other Ethereal keywords to try:  flowy   long   curls
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Ingenue

   hair neat curls medium -frizz -wild
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Other Ingenue keywords to try:  sweet  girlish  ringlets

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​Classic

    hair mature medium  

Also, this one works well:

    hair tv anchor
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Other Classic keywords to try:  elegant   coiffed  "first lady"

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Natural

    hair long layers shag OR wild
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Other Natural keywords to try:  natural  mane  messy

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​Dramatic

   hair sleek
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Other Dramatic terms to try: "slicked back" futuristic  -men 


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Gamine

    hair short boyish
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Other Gamine keywords to try:  spunky  tomboy


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You may have noticed that these search results are mostly white ladies.  :-/  If you want hair styles specifically for women of color with specific hair textures,  try adding, for example, "african american" or "asian" to your search string. 
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For blends of the seven core types, try searching for a few key terms from each core type.

For example, for Romantic-Dramatic-Classic, I used "glamorous" for Romantic, " sleek" for Dramatic, and "elegant for Classic. Here was my search string:

    hair glamorous sleek elegant

 I got some pretty good RDC ideas:
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I'm an Ethereal Natural.  Here's my favorite hair for myself, combining Natural and Ethereal search terms:

    hair layers long curls
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​Pro tip: after you have your image results, click on Tools, then Type, then Face.  That will eliminate photos you don't want, such as pictures of shampoo bottles. 

Also, if your hair has a particular texture that's non-negotiable, try adding that to your search string. For example, if you're predominantly Ethereal but you have straight hair, try searching 


    straight hair long mermaid

(If you don't want all the dyed hair results, try adding this to the end of the search string:  -dye  -ombre  -pink  -blue)



Do you know some search terms that have worked well for your style type? Please share them in the comments!


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Word Order in the Combination Style Types

12/3/2018

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In my style system, there are seven main types and 56 two-way or three-way type blends.  Some of you have written me to ask what it signifies that I call a woman, for example, Natural-Classic-Gamine and not Gamine-Natural-Classic or CLassic-Natural-Gamine. What does the order of the words mean?

When I named each of the blended types, I wanted to come up with a consistent set of rules for word order -- in other words, either a woman with Ethereal and Romantic would be an Ethereal Romantic or a Romantic Ethereal, consistently.

I did consider, but eventually reject, the idea of switching the word orders around based on the relative amounts of each essence in an individual woman. (In other words, calling a woman Romantic Ethereal if she's predominantly Romantic, and Ethereal Romantic if she's predominantly Ethereal.)  I realize that many of you use this system among yourselves, and I'm all for that use!  But it doesn't work when I'm writing about the types theoretically, without regard to a particular woman. I need something more consistent.

I also considered but discarded the idea of beginning each combination with feminine type words first. "Ingenue Natural," for example, didn't sound as good to me as "Natural Ingenue." 

The fact that "Ingenue Natural" sounded weird to me, but "Natural Ingenue" did not, led me to consider the "adjectivity" or "noun-ness" of each word -- in other words, whether the word makes more sense used as an adjective or as a noun.  This quality, in the end, is what drove my decision. 

I basically decided which of the seven words (Natural, Ethereal, etc.) worked best as an adjective, and which worked least well, and made rules for the word order based on that decision. For example, "Romantic" is easily understood as an adjective, so I made the rule that, in any combination type that features the word "Romantic," that word would appear first. The remaining six words always appear in this order:

Ethereal Dramatic Natural Classic Gamine Ingenue

The order reflects my subjective judgment about whether each word works better as an adjective or a noun. 


As I use it, the word order doesn't imply anything about the balance of essences for any person. For example, some Romantic Gamines might be 70 Romantic and 30 Gamine, while other RGs might have the reverse balance.

As I mentioned above, if you prefer to refer to yourselves by listing your essences in order from greatest to least, I think that's awesome.  I just thought it would be useful to you to understand why I put my essence words in a particular order. 

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Easy Ways to Do Dramatic Style

11/5/2018

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Of the seven basic style archetypes, Dramatic perhaps feels the most formal.

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Yet we live in an era of casual fashion. What used to be called "sportswear" is the expected everyday clothing for most of us.

Dramatic asks for stiffness and tailoring, but most of what's available in department stores is unconstructed and soft, and the stiff, tailored pieces are expensive!
Dramatic asks for avant-garde pieces, but some women who are Dramatic blends aren't comfortable with those looks, or don't have access to those items.
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​Dramatic asks for an aggressive energy, but some Dramatic types don't feel comfortable channeling aggression. 
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So if you are a Dramatic blend Dramatic, what are your easy options for creating a Dramatic impression?
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  • ​A visual element that's very important for Dramatics is the impression of an unbroken vertical line. 
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You can buy pieces as a set... or you can create a visually unbroken line by  simply matching your bottoms  to your top. If the color is continuous, people will perceive the line as being elongated.  The monochromatic look is also visually intense, which reads as Dramatic.
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  • If it's practical, choose the heel-length or floor-length option of a skirt or pants, and tops with overly long sleeves.
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  • Tall, narrow heels are good for Dramatics, because they increase the impression of length. But heels are uncomfortable and often impractical. You can skip heels, and instead just make sure your flats are tapered or pointed in the toe.
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  • If you have long hair, a bun or a slicked-back low ponytail is a very quick Dramatic hairstyle. Show off those striking features!  If you have very short hair, slick it back with gel. (This actually looks great for long hair too.)
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  • Blocks of black and white read as Dramatic, and you can create this effect even if you're a Light or Soft season; just combine your versions of black and white, and it will read as Dramatic.
 
  • ​If you're not comfortable coming across as intimidating, focus instead on projecting a silent intensity with your ensemble. 
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  • If you don't have access to avant-garde garments, you can do sleek, simple minimalism in your clothes, and then bring the avant-garde energy with one or two very edgy, minimalist, sharp-edged, oversized accessories you find online.
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  • If your garments aren't constructed, at least keep your silhouette narrow.
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Women who are Dramatic blends: what are some quick tips and tricks you can share for implementing Dramatic in an everyday wardrobe?



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